My girlfriend and I have actually « fixed » times we come across one another, because we generally don’t possess time on other times.
Sometimes, it happens that her training gets cancelled and she’s got time that evening & most times i really do have time, too. I will be fine then asks if we want to meet and I say « Yes » if she.
The circumstances I am not fine with conference is then her training got cancelled if we met like four days in a row and over the weekend (we often spend the whole 48h together) and. On these occasions i want to involve some right time for myself, e.g. playing Computer games (i would like this every once in awhile to relax completely) and as a consequence I decline her question if I would like to meet.
Whenever we decrease, it hurts her emotions. I really do recognize that rejection hurts, and so I would like in order to inform her I do not would you like to meet without hurting her.
She does understand that i would like from time to time a little bit of time and energy to flake out for myself and she does realize it. Lire la suite